Reboot: D is for Dice
Please enjoy this reboot of: D is for Dice
D is for Dice
Hi everyone! Welcome to the A to Z of Sex. I’m Dr Lori Beth and I am your host. We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time. Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don’t have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones. Today the letter is D and D is for Dice.
Joining me today is Jeremy Fraser, originally a Londoner to kiwi parents - now living in New Zealand. Serial entrepreneur, partner to Lauretta, surfer and road biker, step-father to 1 and if all goes to plan, a freshly minted father to my own in 7 months' time. He started Dalliance Adult 12 months ago and initially fell randomly into the adult dice niche as there was an opportunity on Amazon to create a product that was much better than all the cheap shite that was already on there. Now we have copycats galore. He wanted to stay away from all the same-same tacky plastic bondage gear and sex toys that have flooded the market. He soon realised there was a market for upscale adult products from a company that genuinely cared about their customers and their relationships with their partners.
As you can see from our website and FB page, our mission is to re-ignite relationships that are staling and to help folks develop love and trust with their partner, through content we generate and games and toys that we curate.
We talked about sex dice, the difficulties in creating intimacy and getting relationships re-ignited after you have been in them for a long time. We talked about how ‘ordinary’ couples can find it really difficult to talk about sex and Jeremy said that men particularly find this difficult as they don’t want to upset their wives or hurt their wife’s feelings. We spoke about how sex can become routine or boring, how life can get in the way of an exciting sexual life and how things like sex dice can be used to bring some new energy into that part of the relationship. We talk about laughter and light heartedness as part of intimacy and how often people find this a problem. Again games and sex toys can be used as a way to introduce some laughter and light energy.
I asked about his views on pornography and he spoke of how so much is available on the internet for free and that this can desensitize people to sex and might mean someone is not interested in their partner because sex is seen as so ordinary. I pointed out that I thought that this really wasn’t the issue but rather it was the expectations people had as a result of what they were watching that could be a problem.
I asked about what is coming up for his company. He said the next item is a really beginner BDSM set with instructions. He said that information on new products can be found on the Facebook page and on the website. Jeremy highlighted the fact that they also produce content to try to help couples to get re-engaged in their sexual lives.
To get in touch with Jeremy:
- Website - www.dallianceadult.com
- FB fanpage - Relationship Tips 'n' Trix (https://www.facebook.com/relationshiptipsntrix/)
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