Episode 25

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8th Oct 2018

Z is for Master Black Zeus

Z is for Master Black Zeus

Hi everyone!  Welcome to the A to Z of Sex.  I’m Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and I am your host.  We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time.  Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don’t have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones.  Today the letter is Z and Z is for Master Black Zeus.

 

I had the opportunity interview Master Black Zeus during Master Slave Conference 2018.  He is a community elder who entered the leather community in 1986 when he was mentored and introduced into the community by a gay leatherman who he rode motorcycles with.  Like many who engage in BDSM and/or are part of the leather community, he began his journey anonymously so as not to cause problems in his daily life.  He entered the public scene in 1997 by joining Black Rose and attending a number of classes and events.   He developed a website and began to host regular online educational events.  He is a member of MAsT Las Vegas and hosts the ISA Network video conferences.

 

We started by talking about his entry into the leather community.  He spoke about being the lone heterosexual black male in places he went to and not really meeting any other people of colour until 1996. 

 

He talked about being mentored by dominant women of colour.  He spoke about learning from Lady Z by watching and then experiencing by doing.  He spoke of learning from Mistress Max Rulz and then coming into Black Beat which was one of the first conferences that was for people of colour.  He spoke about Goddess Lakshimi, Lady D and Mama Vi and Mistress Mir.  He said that ‘These ladies were instrumental in my learning’.    We spoke about the change in the number of people of colour attending events now.

 

We moved on to talking about authority transfer based relationships, BDSM, kink and looking at the history of leather which comes out of the gay community. 

 

We spoke about consent being for dominant and submissive.  Consent for both sides. We spoke about establishing exit criteria at the beginning of a relationship so that people are comfortable with the transition.   

 

We continued by talking about the content of Dominant/submissive (D/s) and Master/slave (M/s) relationships.

Part two of this interview is on Sex Spoken Here vlog (YouTube) and podcast.

 

Master Black Zeus can be found at blackzeus.net

 

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The A to Z of Sex
The A to Z of Sex Podcast
Welcome to the A to Z of Sex! Each week I explore a letter of the erotic alphabet, covering topics from arousal to zipless f*cks. While exploring, you will learn more about desire, how to express your desires and how to spice up your relationships and create that long lasting sizzling hot relationship you have always wanted. My guests and I will share solid science, practical techniques and real life stories. We’ll answer the questions you have been too embarrassed to ask and talk about the down and dirty details that can make or break that intimate experience. . Knowledge gives you the power to create relationships that bring you satisfaction and joy. Join me, Dr Lori Beth Bisbey, The Intimacy Coach, weekly on the A to Z of Sex podcast and discover the many layers and many flavours of sex and sexuality and how to apply these to your intimate relationships. To find out more, read the companion blog and connect with me go to www.atozofsex.com.

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Lori Beth Bisbey

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey® is a psychologist, sex & intimacy coach, accredited advance GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity) therapist (Pink Therapy), speaker, media personality, author & podcast host who has been working with people since for more than 30 years to help them create and maintain meaningful relationships with sizzling sex (without the shame). She has expertise in the treatment of trauma and GSRD (gender, sex, relationship diversity). Dr Lori Beth spends a lot of time working with people who want to try or already live as consensually non-monogamous or in authority transfer based relationships (BDSM and/or kink) or both. The A to Z of Sex® (her main podcast) has been running since October 2016. From 2019-2021, there were live broadcasts on the Health & Wellness Channel of VoiceAmerica.com. Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is the resident specialist relationship therapist on Channel 4's Open House: The Great Sex Experiment.